Had a chat with Jas over msn..she told me abt an incident regarding her admin gal..her admin gal is a woman who divorced twice..recently got a new bf & brought him to their company dinner..& to Jas surprised, the guy is her gf's husband!! WTH!! that guy is married to Jas fren yet now went to a company dinner as someone else bf!! knn!! now Jas in dilemma dunno whether to tell her gf anot..she said sometimes ignorance might be a bliss..She went to ask her gf how's her marriage..Her gf told her that the husband always very busy..go home only once or twice a week..rest of the time he working & sleeps in office!! but in fact the guy is actually quite free, always go meet admin gal for lunch lah go stay over her place!! having an affair is already wrong..this is worse than an affair!! he's not really goin home for the wife & already dare to introduce himself openly as another woman's bf!! this is more than an affair already its starting of a relationship!! WTF!! why cant men juz be faithful & good to the wife..why muz they go out & fool around..They nv thought of their wives' feelings at all!! grrrrrrr!!

Frens, if ever one day my future husband is being unfaithful to me..pls tell me..cos i believed that i rather noe the truth & leave a heartless man than being blissfully ignorant abt his affair outside..