Read a short article in a mag just nw..find it quite useful..gals, show this to ur man..guys, make a point to read it..

CALM HER DOWN DURING A FIGHT

Even the most harmonious pairs get pissed at each other sometimes.But if u noe how to handle ur gf's emotions during a tiff, u can prevent a full scale screaming match from ensuing. To defuse a blowout, follow this advice.

Don't Try To Hug It Out
So maybe she's overreacting a little, but trying to gloss over the problem by physically engulfing her will juz make it worse. When u try to solve an argument with physical contact only, it seems to her that u arent really listening. So even if u hate hashing things out, the fight will cool down faster if u assess her concerns.

Be The Bigger Person
When u've wrong ur girl, u juz have to come clean..and soon.. Being stubborn will only aggravate the situation. So what if u r innocent? Try this alternative to an apology: "I dint do that intentionally, But now i can see why u took it that way." In some ways, its better than "i'm sorry" which sound like an easy out.

Stay On Point
U noe how it goes: One minute, u r fighting abt whose turn it is to do the dishes, and the next minute, she's harping on how u missed her sister's birthday party..six months ago. When a person feels like they r not being heard or realizes they r wrong, they may dig up old baggage to bolster their point. Focus the conversation on the immediate incident. If she brings up past grievances, say "Wait, can we juz talk abt what happened today?We can discuss the other issue later, but i want to finish this first."

Reassure Her That You Want To Fix It
Often, fights spin out of control when a woman worries the relationship is at stake. That's why u should show her that u care enough abt the union to mend the problem. Rather than juz focusing on what either of u did wrong, tell her that u want to find ways to prevent the same issue from popping up again. It shows u r in it for the long haul.